The fact that you say things that you know are lies and have confidence that I'll believe them is mind blowing. And maybe I let you think that I do, but know that I peep your game. Sometimes, we let you men think that we know nothing or see nothing, but we really do. Sometimes... we simply just do not have the energy in us to confront you on it or face the problems. But understand that we know... We notice the way that you text, how you treat us around other people, whether or not your eyes wander and for how long... women are built to be attentive, strategic, and observant. Smooth talkers are everywhere, but I think men forget that us women can do it, too, but a lot better. Yes, you may hurt us, at first, but once we get to that stage where we no longer have the energy to confront you on the issues and face them head on, we just might become the smooth talker like you. And the gag is, women learn how to be smooth talkers and players from the men that play us! What MEN should understand is that we do it a lot better. You see, it starts off as us truly having interest in you when you come around, but it is when you start acting up when we start to get like you. For nearly every woman, there is always AT LEAST ONE man on the sidelines that has forever been persistent trying to get the opportunity that you are wasting. Showing us women all that we could have and all that we are missing while we are busy stressing over you. We might not cheat, not all of us do, but what we may be guilty of is entertaining the texts and company of this other man while you are doing whatever it is that you are doing. And, the only way you will know this other man is being entertained, or even exists is if we tell you. And, men don't have it in them to be as attentive as a woman, because if they were, they would notice when their woman has her eyes elsewhere. Through being with a smooth talker, and dealing with a smooth talker... and being observant, we learn where and how you slip up so we understand all that it takes to do it back to you and be ten times better at it. Not bragging, just stating facts. Women simply do not get enough credit where it is due because we are smarter than men think. We LET YOU get away with the things that you get away with because there is either another man, we are choosing to be naïve, or we have yelled at you so much about the same thing that we just do not have it in us to talk about it again. I think this is where the idea of karma comes into play, because...if we get tired enough, we'll allow all of that stuff to come back onto you. All that we have learned, all that we observed... everything will come back onto you. It's not that we necessarily want to intentionally hurt you, women just get tired. But hey, Smooth Talker... I see you and keep moving how you move and we'll move how we move, too.
Girlfriends was by far one of the best television shows that I grew up watching, and still watch to this day... and when I think about the type of women/social circle that I would like to be around, Joan, Toni, Mya, and Lynn is exactly what it would look like. I remember starting off the sixth grade and traveling up until high school with a huge social circle filled with all these different types of girls and young women with varied personalities, values, and beliefs. Throughout that time, my social circle remained large, but there were some tweaks here and there and some people were not meant to last. What I mean is, we outgrow some relationships, we drain out some relationships, and we sometimes stop putting forth the effort to keep up effective relationships. Over the course of those years, I developed a lot of meaningful relationships and developed a slight sense of what type of people I wanted to be surrounded by. One of the major adjustments that I had throughout graduat
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