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Acknowledging Your "Beautiful and Sexy"...


So, with being single, I have developed this new type of confidence and obsession with myself. (lol, in a healthy way) I have become intrigued with every aspect of who I am and I feel more beautiful than I ever have. I am not talking about feeling beautiful and sexy because a man tells me that I am, nor because a guy says it just to get into my pants... but because I have grown into a woman that I admire and am proud of. Acknowledging your sexy means... feeling confident about yourself and loving yourself for everything that makes you...YOU. It is loving every curl in your head, or that gap in between your teeth, or the hair on your arms that people may view as a flaw in you. We have a problem as the younger generation with looking towards our peers to judge us on what makes us sexy and beautiful. Honestly, the words sexy and beautiful have different definitions for every person because what is considered attractive and appealing to one person may not be the same for the next. It is important that regardless of whether or not a person labels you as unappealing, YOU still have that same confidence in yourself and keep it moving. Being sexy really has nothing to do with anyone else but you because you're the one living in your skin every single day. Yes, there are plastic surgeries and a lot of things used to alter our bodies, but just recognize that you are stuck in the body you were born into and you should make the best of it. Aside from the external things, being beautiful and sexy can also include our personalities and I can definitely say that I am INLOVE with mine. I acknowledge that my determination, work ethic, and educational background is sexy. My "ride or die" mentality and support characteristics make me a beautiful person that anyone would be able to have. Developing confidence in yourself is something that is highly beneficial and I encourage everyone to take the steps to get there, whether it is getting your nails done every two weeks, getting your hair done, yoga, whatever it is... find it and stick with it.
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